I feel like there is so much unnecessary shit going on in my life that I am starting to become overwhelmed with what all is going on around me. I have cried so much and honestly probably not enough for what I am dealing with. Anyways hello, welcome back to the clueless babes blog it is your girl Clueless here, ready to talk about my quarter life crisis. I don’t know about anyone else but I feel like recently my life has been crumbling, hard. I know that this period of my life where everything feels like it’s falling apart is just a transition period to walk into something better. But lets be honest, these transition periods fucking suck. I am having anxiety, people are showing their ass to me, I hate everything and everyone. I am struggling so hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel, even though I know it’s there it’s still really hard to see.
I feel like no one talks about transition periods enough, it’s always a short comment saying “You’ll get through this” “Keep your head up,” and my personal favorite “Trouble don’t last always.” I wish people said more than those small comments, say something more relatable so I don’t feel as alone. Tell me about a time you were in a transition period and you honestly didn’t know if there was anything on the other side. Tell me how you didn’t believe there was another side. Be honest with me! Too many people brush over their struggles instead of talking about it. I need the harsh honest truth about how people felt during their hard times, did you cry a lot? Did you want to end it all? Did you isolate yourself? Tell me the full truth about growing pains, explain to me how you didn’t know if there was truly light on the other side, or how you didn’t know if you were going to make it.
After you tell me all of that, tell me how it feels to be here at your age when you didn’t even suspect to make it to the age 17. Are you proud of yourself, do you wanna keep going on most days even when life throws things your way? Do you still sometimes want to end it all, or do you just want to end the issues you face? You just want to feel like you’ve accomplished something in your life. You want to feel successful in your skin, in your relationships, in your career, you just want to be proud and others to be proud of you.
So once again I wish people talked about the transition periods in life way more than they do. To the older generation, stop brushing over the issues you faced. Keep it real with us. If you were so sad you didn’t know if you were going to survive, or even get better in any way shape, form or fashion, let us know because we can see that you made it out alive. We can see and feel the difference of when you’re struggling versus now, where you have hope even in your darkest moments. SO to end it off, stop sugar coating, stop brushing it off, stop telling us it’ll be okay unless you tell us your story of how you felt it wasn’t. In all honesty we just want the truth, we want to relate. This may just be my opinion but I am pretty sure there are quite a few others like me. So with that being said, keep it real, we’d appreciate your honesty and transparency. Thank you so much.
Signing off,
-Clueless
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