I realized I never formally introduced myself so with that being said… hello my name is clueless, I am a 21 years old who is trying to figure out her way. I go by the name of clueless just due to the fact that I feel incredibly clueless sometimes. I feel clueless with my career path, my relationships, my education, etc. Since it is the holiday season, I feel especially clueless. Being around family is great but when they ask what am I doing, am I in school, do I know what I want to do with my life, it makes me feel self conscious. Mostly because when they check in with my sister they ask her completely different questions. They are like “how’s the blog, what is your next step, do you have a boyfriend?” I believe that some of my family feels as if I won’t go anywhere and I have no direction and no drive to do anything with my life, which is totally not the case. I know what I want my end goal to be, the problem is how do I get there. How do I get to my end goal without compromising myself, my health, and what I truly want. I know I don’t want a job that is typical and takes up ALL of my time. I know I don’t want anything that causes me to sacrifice time with my friends and family unless I choose to work and not hang out. I want flexibility and financial freedom. The best part about it all is that I found a few ways to do it, now I just have to execute it. I have just started on my new endeavors and I am so happy at where this will possibly take me. So my advice to anyone who feels like they don’t know what to do or how:
Tip #1
Try new things, this will help you experience things and let you find out if you like them. Tip #2
If you don’t like it try something else, don’t waste your time on things you don’t like life is too short to be unhappy Tip #3
Just start, if you have an idea but don’t know how or when to start, just start! Start researching and gaining knowledge or finding inspiration, if it doesn’t work out at least you tried Tip #4
If you really like something, keep doing it, it'll pay off eventually If people hate what you do, let them you’ll always have a hater somewhere.
Have a Great Rest of your day. Signing off, -Clueless
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